Ta'areef-ae-a'jaaz : Never admire quietly
Lately I have read somewhere that, "I would love to refrain from saying I love you on funeral day rather than saying it on a normal daily day". I want you to realize how beautifully you've contributed to my life. It is a very old saying that you should never admire quietly. The logic is pretty simple. There we have two approaches. Those who believe in a phenomenon of public appreciation can make people overconfident and egoistic. The counter approach says it makes a person's presence acknowledged. They derive a sense of validation and happiness from an admiration which is loud and clear. I always have a firm belief in loud admiration that many people raise an issue against them assuming them as self obsessed people, considering that of as a narcissistic behavior and how people use it as a tool for gaslighting. But no, that's not the reality. Reality is enveloped inside the blanket of effective communication. People hardly want to make efforts. They...