Ballerina's Fling: Seven Eight Nine

A note from the most famous Ballerina of St. Irwin's College of Business and Commerce. She's gorgeous, damn good in her skill, the sole crush of each guy, spoiled, ambitious and quite good in academics. She knew how to get the work done either by hook or by crook. 

Her family had supported her in every single decision of her life. Well, you're surely getting a picture in your mind of Alia 'Shanaya' from SOTY. But no, she dumb of a kind and behaves to be sophisticated. 

Well, the note says: 

Hey Love! Why you're the shit of my life wrapped in gold foil. The love which I did to the moon and back now is a pure moon full of flaws. Where were the flaws earlier? Bwahh... Which concealer you used because you concealed them so well. That's surely my thing. I loved the perfect. Now it's just LOEV or LUOV, I don't even know exactly.

Dots from her note:

She had bitterness for her ex, breakup, her relationship doesn't work out, her bad experience, her being strong(pretentious), doppelganger of GEET from the jab we met, she's unhappy yada yada...

[ WOW WE JUDGED IT SO RIGHTEOUSLY, phewww sole thing we all are good at ]

In a way or another we all went through the same pain or experienced the similar situation once in our life that our relationships or love life that had turned into hell. 

Ask few questions from yourself: 

WHY: WHY it happened?

Has your gut allowed you to sense something is fishy?

Do you know where you're lacking?

Are you feeling the same instincts?

WHEN: WHEN it happened?

Were you mature enough to be in a relationship?

Did you exactly know the meaning of Understanding?

Are you actually seeking for some better one to happen?

HOW: HOW it happened?

Is it a blame game? 

Is it the fault of your ego? 

What exactly is your motive?

Well these are some self analysis questions that I have given you. It's really necessary to know exactly what happened. According to recent data from the American Psychological Association, as many as 50 percent of relationships eventually end in breakup. Exactly the same statistics revolve around marriage and divorce. Long-distance relationships have a 58% success rate. Getting negative, let's cut to the chase. Let us try to figure out what exactly nine distinctions make us fall in trap of these not-so-good statistics. 

1. 3Ds: Disagreements, Dishonesty and Deprivations 

What exactly we mean by three Dee's are as follows: 

Disagreements usually mean not agreeing on on a particular topic but what exactly it is conceived as that all the disc disagreements are quite common in in relationships they try to build the relationship more stronger but my dear if disagreements iron logical topics then it's perfectly fine if friends on stupid illogical useless topics then you need to understand its need of an hour to sort out the disagreement.

Second point is dishonesty, the process of being honest starts from a tender age. If you are honest towards each and everything then honesty will last long and if you are not then honesty at a point will make things complicated. So dishonesty become the main reason.

Deprivations can be defined as a void. It can be anything. You are feeling bad about your past or you are missing your ex or you are in touch with your ex or you are deprived of something which is not present in your current relationship. That feeling of void is there so it's basically deprivation.

2. Excessive time spent on mobile phones is the basic ground of cheat these days. Well the time of activity on a particular social app is termed as a cheat if you are not talking to your beloved. Continuously spending the WE TIME on mobile leads to fights and disharmony. 34% of Gen Y-ers have called it quits through a text, whereas just 3% of adults aged 55+ have done the same. So by this we can analyse the calling off from mobile is just a simple and easy peasy process. 

3. We usually used to fantasize the situation. What exactly is shown to us in movies we believe that this is gonna be true. That pink dreamy situation makes us more uncomfortable with the harsh reality. 

4. Our understanding of the things is very narrow and we don't wanna widen up our horizons. We wanna be in our cocoon and wanting to settle down there itself. 

5. Tech era has made everything online that we as humans have lost empathy, humanity and grace. Nowadays we are recklessly swiping right or left without any motive. It's now becoming much of a leisure time activity. In coming years surely our siblings are gonna write that as part of their hobby to swipe tinder profiles. 

6. Financial infidelity: As many as 71% of people in a serious relationship have committed financial infidelity on at least one occasion, the most common examples being showing the best case scenario and neglecting the worst case. Hiding the finance related issues comes under this. Also, the difference between the financial stature of two individuals can make the ground of cheat. 

SEVEN: Maturity is the one phenomenon in which you realise that which choice you have made is solely your choice. You have no pressure regarding that but you should know the exact meaning and have understanding of the choice you have made. This is known as maturity. There is one common saying that maturity always comes with age but it doesn't make any sense regarding that. Maturity does not, if you are a small person then you can be mature also if you are an aged person then also you can't be mature.

EIGHT: Self Respect vs Ego: The thin line difference between self respect and ego is that self respect is something which you are doing for yourself and ego is something which you are doing for show off. self respect is content and ego is flaunt. self respect is intrinsic and ego is extrinsic. self respect is individual and ego is communal. understand the prospective meaning of ego and self respect, if you are ruining your relationship for ego then please do not do that.

NINE: No Backtracking: Abhi aa Gaye ho to, Nibhao. Until and unless it's not coming to your mental peace so please try your level best to maintain your relationship it's the most beautiful feeling to be in a relationship. Love is the most criticized as well as most loved feeling in the world.  understand you have got a precious diamond in your casket. Learn the value, worth and importance of yourself.

THANKYOU AND GOD BLESS