FAMILY SHOULD NOT! : MAYANK
Well moving out of the stream is the one thing that you can surely read in this write-up. Basically family is the crucial part besides that sometimes in the sense of becoming perfectionist they lose the league where children taught them what's actually meant to be true. Let's read the point of view of what a family should not do.
Generation gap does really exist. Thinking is different.
When it comes to career or dreams, families should not give everything a child demands and decide what their child will do when he/she will grow up.
a family should not run before giving their child everything as they can lose the shine of a diamond which they already have because of that their ward can be a spoilt brat.
They should not guide each and everything on even small steps in their life and force their child to do as they say. Studies tell children only learn till age of twelve from their family. As per my analysis. Around me, the family who guide their children and force them to do as they say follow them every time. When they go outside home they follow others without thinking. This makes them lose their cognitive skills as they have not used it. They don't know from where to learn or there are better people than their family to learn from not blindly following people around them. This is what is happening around me, teenagers and even with people who are married now. They are forced to follow their family in everything, each and every step in their life and I confirm that family is not the best source to learn from.
They should not just follow their family or just people around them. They should know they are unique just learn good from everyone not just blindly following anyone even their family.
a family should know that they are not the best, they just should see if their child is not really doing something wrong. They should know that every child is unique, not just compare their child with other children. I even learnt to live by some good people on social media and meaningful punjabi songs. They told me how to live with “apne hisab se” not according to what others say. As I already mentioned this is not just about career or child interest, even aged married people who are suffering from this family' insecurities are forced onto their children. Whereas children should fight their own problem on their own not like what presents say family nowadays are like say something and do something this is not just with me but I analyzed so many people around me talked to them children should know their family are also learning from outside They should also do and if they do they will have some different concepts to live life which create different conflict that's what happens with me always One of the point children couldn't run according to them is their family criticize them a lot.
Mayank
Generation gap does really exist. Thinking is different.
When it comes to career or dreams, families should not give everything a child demands and decide what their child will do when he/she will grow up.
a family should not run before giving their child everything as they can lose the shine of a diamond which they already have because of that their ward can be a spoilt brat.
They should not guide each and everything on even small steps in their life and force their child to do as they say. Studies tell children only learn till age of twelve from their family. As per my analysis. Around me, the family who guide their children and force them to do as they say follow them every time. When they go outside home they follow others without thinking. This makes them lose their cognitive skills as they have not used it. They don't know from where to learn or there are better people than their family to learn from not blindly following people around them. This is what is happening around me, teenagers and even with people who are married now. They are forced to follow their family in everything, each and every step in their life and I confirm that family is not the best source to learn from.
They should not just follow their family or just people around them. They should know they are unique just learn good from everyone not just blindly following anyone even their family.
a family should know that they are not the best, they just should see if their child is not really doing something wrong. They should know that every child is unique, not just compare their child with other children. I even learnt to live by some good people on social media and meaningful punjabi songs. They told me how to live with “apne hisab se” not according to what others say. As I already mentioned this is not just about career or child interest, even aged married people who are suffering from this family' insecurities are forced onto their children. Whereas children should fight their own problem on their own not like what presents say family nowadays are like say something and do something this is not just with me but I analyzed so many people around me talked to them children should know their family are also learning from outside They should also do and if they do they will have some different concepts to live life which create different conflict that's what happens with me always One of the point children couldn't run according to them is their family criticize them a lot.
Mayank
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